Woman With PMS Is More Dangerous

If you’re a boy, I’m sure you’re giggling right now by watching the picture above. Not only giggling but also agree with that deep inside your heart. How about me? Yes, me. I’m a girl and extremely support that.

Uhm, don’t determine my statement literally. I don’t really mean to stay during a week in my room with that “yellow warning” on my door. PMS is stands for Pre-Menstruation Syndrome. I am as the girl always get those kind of symptomps. And the most annoying symptomp is a mood-swing, you know, the changing of mood in sudden. Now you are in a good mood to do anything but believe me, in the next minutes, you don’t have the good mood left. All you want to do is getting mad because everything is not as fine as before, you believe that everybody makes mistakes in front of you on that day. No one right except you. If you’re a girl and you feel the same, clap your hands!

That’s why I support the picture above. But please, once again, not in literally. I mean, if you already know that you almost get your period and you feel that sympomp, please just stay away from another, don’t make a long convo with them. It is just an anticipation to avoid misunderstanding among your friends or between your boyfriend. Sometimes when you’re in a PMS phase, you’re easy to get offended, that’s why you better stay away from a long convo. Joking is allowed as long as you can handle yourself. Don’t let yourself ruin your own day with others. Some of them are understand and some of them are not, especially your boyfriend. In this phase, most of couple get in a short fighting based in the little thing and the boys with his logic don’t understand us. Poor him, they always get blamed.

The solution? Just be a sensitive person, if you realize that your girlfriend is getting mad for some unimportant things, stay away. Some of girls are don’t realize that they’re in a PMS phase so they can’t handle herself. Or perhaps you find your girlfriend not in the good mood to do anything with you, it could be the symptomp. Don’t try to launch some jokes, or you’ll face the awkward moment, they always set the pokerface up.

How about me? Am I always realize that I’m in the PMS phase? Uhm, sometimes. Hehe. Sometimes I can handle my self and sometimes I can’t. It is depend on the condition but I prefer to give my blank expression and keep silent. Or................................curse anyone that annoy me on that day, LOL.

Him: “How about have a dinner together with me?”

Me: “Oh sh*t, you wanna make me getting fat or what? I don’t get it why all the boys see the girls only by her appearance. Who do they think they are? Robert Pattinson? Antonio Banderas? Eewh.

Him: “But I just wanna ask for din....”

Me: “STFU! You are same with others.”

Him: “............”

Convo Class And Dora The Explorer

Sooo, today is my first time to come in the convo class held by Formasi, english club of university level. You know, I have a big problem to speak English fluently in front of people. Every students who come in this convo class is forced to speak up in front of the other students. Okay, this is conversation class but I feel like in the public speaking class. When the senior gave us some advices to speak fluently, I really want to say that I've already tried all his ways to make us speak up, but still no big result (for me). I always speak in front of the mirror, I laways act like a nut when I'm lonely in the room by speaking English alone. Yes! Alone! And it works only on that time, I can speak fluently in English. Then he said that we need to have a friend which good in speaking English. Yeah, I have some and I always try to act like an American when I speak to her, and it is so easy, no difficulty. But it become so different when the condition forces me to speak in front of audiences, or to the senior that more expert than me. I become so nervous, my heart beats faster, I got my hand so cold and I just speak blah blah blah. Poor me :(

And now the time for sharing my experience today in my first convo class. After introducing and warming up, the senior divided us into 5 groups and asked us to make a short drama, and every actor/actress has to speak. He only gave us 15 minutes for discussing. Thankyou -_-
After 5 minutes, we decided to take one of the Dora The Explorer's episodes as our drama. And you know what, the leader in my team picked me as Dora since I have a short hair. Thankyou very much.
I don't know why but finally we got the first turn to show our drama. Just imagine how nervous I am! But I could pass it through well, uhm, not to well I think. Because I made some blockings and spoke not too clearly, once again, those are my opinion, I don't know how the adjudicators see our team.
But in the end, the senior announced the top 3 speakers on this week and believe it or not, I got the third grade :) So happy but it doesn't make me so arrogant anyway. At least, they confess my existence in the world, hahaha, how hyperbole I am.

Okay, this is not a good ending for today's posting but, happy speaking everybody :D

They Are Totally Normal, Just Like Us

Hello! Readers to the eaaarth. I know you can't take off your eyes now by seeing those pictures. Instead of seeing those picture, what if you compare them? Yeah, the upper and the bottom picture. Find the diferences and I give you 5 minutes. *time goes by so slowly* Well, have you done it? Ok, just keep it and start to read my posting today. First, I want to reveal their identity. *for those who don't realize them at the first sight*

Rosie Huntington-Whiteley, Adriana Lima and Alessandra Ambrosio with and without make up.

Also without: their hair professionally done, professional lighting, shadows and angles and the ever present usage of professional digital editing software such as Photoshop.

And guess what…they look normal. Just like any other woman. Unless you get all of the above mentioned perks too, it’s not fair to compare yourself to manipulated photographs of normal looking women.

Use your eyes and see that what you’re killing yourself to look like is fake and manufactured beauty. Those women look just fine without all of the bullshit they do to make them deemed socially sexy… and so do you.

And what about K-pop Idol? Are they fake too? Honestly, I'm lil bit obsessed with Korean girlband............................................ *just pretend this sentence is invisible*

Eureka!

This gonna be the most random posting that I ever made, uhm, maybe only in this period. Who knows someday I’ll come with another random postings. Who knows. I have a random mood, I have a random idea, simply you can call me ‘random-girl’.

So, take a look on my upper picture, then identify it. Did you get the most famous fairytale-book on it? No, I’m not talk about the mug with Marie-cat as the picture. What I want to show you is “The Tales of Beedle The Bard”, fairytale-book on the Harry Potter and The Deathly Hallow. I found this picture when I was Tumblring last night. I don’t know why, I heart this picture at the first sight. Perhaps the lighting of the picture makes it catchy? Or the red cupcake looks delicious? I don’t know. Who knows.

I have this book too, my friend gave it to me as my birthday gift, how lucky I am  I still remember how excited I am to receive this book, you know, I love everything about Harry Potter. It was a great birthday gift, believe me. It didn’t take a long time to finish it, good story written by J.K. Rowling. You know her style 

I took that shoot, I mean the bottom picture, when I was on eleventh grader. Then I found that old photo on my handphone. Gotta make a little change on it to make it nice.

Enjoy! Eureka!

Smokey The Noise Maker

What is Smokey? Who is Smokey? Smokey beef?

Actually, Smokey is the name of the cat. She is female and 12 y/o. Seems there is no wrong with her but for your information this cat has a wonderful voice. I didn't say that she can sing a song, amazing because she has a very noisy voice in the world.

I think you have to put on your hands to cover your ears. Smokey produce her voice until 92 decibels and it's same with the voice from Boeing 737 when it taking-off. If you are 5 meters from her, the noisy is about 80 decibels. For your information, usually, cat only produces voice until 25 decibels. Now you can imagine how noisy she is!

Ruth and Mark Adams as the owner said that Smokey's voice is dominating in their house. It can muffled television and radio voices. The only time when there's no noisy is when Smokey is sleeping.

Just imagine if you have a cat like that or your neighbor have this one. Perhaps it has a cute face and soft fur but I bet you can't stand with its voice. It is really disturb your time and make your iPod and DVD home-theater are so useless. Cats are always cute and funny, I love them so damn, just like Katty Perry does :D But I wish I won't have a noisy cat like that but I didn't expect them to be disappeared.

God, make my wish comes true, amen.

I Wanna Be Your Friend

Masih inget event KIMCHI kemarin kan? Masih inget juga kan betapa senengnya waktu denger Leeteuk ngasih salam buat para ELF Indonesia pake bahasa Indonesia yang lumayan panjang. Rasanya pengan nangis aja denger dia ngomong gitu, kelihatan banget usahanya biar gak ngecewain ELF di Indonesia. Ya, seperti yang kita tahu, beberapa hari sebelum KIMCHI, Siwon diketahui berhalangan untuk hadir di acara tersebut. Dia bahkan sampai bikin video permohonan maaf dan di akhir videonya, dia bilang "Aku cinta kalian". Kalian? Siapa lagi kalu bukan ELF :)

Naaaah, ternyata Siwon ini bener-bener memikirkan para fansnya lho. Gue gak sotoy kok, ada buktinya. Tapi bukti ini malah bikin gue envy berat :( Nih, gue upload-in ya..



Kurang jelaaas? Ada versi zoom nya nih..



Ini bukan rekayasa lho, gue dapet dari twitternya Agnes Monica. Iya, Agnes Monica, gak salah baca kok. Envy kan envy? Agnes upload foto ini di twitter bukannya mau pamer kalo dia temenan sama Siwon. Siwon minta tolong Agnes buat nyampein keinginannya untuk hadir di KIMCHI. Waaaah Siwon unyu banget deh, bener-bener mikirin ELF.

Kesannya telat banget ya gue posting ini, tapi posting ini sifatnya bukan menginfomarsikan kok hehe :) Well, I'm not really ELF, but I really admire Siwon in Super Junior, and it would be great if I have a fellowship with him like Agnes does. I know it is impossible for an ordinary girl like me but you know what, Justin Bieber follows me on my Twitter and I don't lie. It proves that nothing in this world is impossible, Agnes and Siwon are friend, Justin Bieber follows my Twitter account, my friend, Vina met her favorite band, Vierra. With no arrogance in my heart, what's yours? :) I hope it makes you more happy to face your day :)

If Siwon is already Agnes', then Taemin, do you want to be my friend? Actually, I'm Shawol.

Lovely Advices for Your Personality

Good morning ya'll :D (it's morning in my country) Keep smiling and spirit! :)
Yes, it sounds a common quote that you always heard from Twitter or anything else. But if you want to make that "sentences" become "the mood booster", just move on! I mean, it's so meaningless if every morning you read that quote and keep retweeting on your twitter but you do nothing. Behave the good ones and it would change your personality better. I think it's not difficult unless you're a "yesterday person". Well, these ways maybe would help you to escape from "Moaning Morning Syndrome" :D

1. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
3. Don’t over do. Keep your limits.
4. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
6. Dream more while you are awake.
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
8. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more.
14. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

This Is Not About Alakazam

Alohomora! I just have opened my blog this noon so let me say "hi" to all of you :D Today, I want to share some information about Harry Potter. Yes, I'm addicted to those novels and movies. Awesome and incredible, good job for the author, J.K. Rowling. I appreciate her great imagination to make this magic story, to make all the wizard characters, and for the spells for sure :D Yes, magic world is similar to the spells. The common spells that we usually hear like "alakazam", "abrakadabra", or 'hocus pocus' are nothing compared to those spells created by J.K. Rowling. FYI, Rowling really think before she makes it. Some of the spells are based on Spain-language and Greek o_o Well, just check the list of the spells below :) Enjoy!


Harry Potter Spells And Uses

Accio
A spell to bring an object back into your hand. It can be used to bring a certain object, such as in Accio Butterbeer.

Alohomora
This spell opens a locked or closed door. The opposite of this is Colloportus.

Avada Kedevra
One of the three Unforgivable Curses, this spell causes death.

Colloportus
This spell locks a door shut. Hermoine uses this to cover their escape at the end of Book 5.

Crucio
One of the three Unforgivable Curses, this spell is the Cruciatus Curse and causes great pain. Umbridge tries to cast this on Harry at the end of Book 5.

Diffindo
The spell used to rip open tapestries and such. Used quite a bit in the computer game based on Book 2.

Expecto Patronum
This spell creates a silvery protective creature, a patronus. Harry’s patronus is a stag; Cho’s is a swan. Hermoine has an Otter.

Expelliarmus
One of the more simple spells, and the first spell that the D.A. group works on in Book 5. This disarms your opponent.

Finite
A spell to cancel the effects of another spell. Lupin uses it on Neville to get him to stop dancing at the end of book 5.

Flagrate
A form of fire spell, Hermoine uses this to mark an “X” on doors in the Mysteries area in book 5.

Flipendo
A simple spell that flips something over.

Impedimenta
This spell causes a person to freeze for about a minute.

Imperio
One of the three Unforgivable Curses, this allows a wizard to take total control of another person.

Impervius
A spell to cause an invisible wall to form. Quidditch players use this to keep the rain off their faces at times.

Incarcerous
Umbridge tries this on the centaurs in book 5 - to wrap ropes around them - but the centaurs easily shake them off.

Incendio
A spell to cause a fire to burn.

Legilimens
A spell to extract memories and feelings from another person, to in essence look through the memories another has.

Levicorus
A nonverbal spell to hang a person in the air by one ankle.

Locomotor
The locomotor spell causes something to move in a given direction. For example, to move trunks along with you, you would command Locomotor trunks. To cause someone to freeze stiff, you use Locomotor mortis.

Lumos
This spell causes the wand tips to glow and give off light.

Morsmordre
A dark spell that causes a dark mark - the sign of Voldemort - to appear.

Muffiato
A spell that fills the ears of anyone nearby with buzzing, so that conversations are not overheard.

Nox
A spell to cause darkness, the opposite of Lumos. Interestingly, the name of a fun computer RPG.

Obliviate
A memory erasing charm that Professor Lockhart was extremely fond of.

Petrificus Totalus
A spell to cause someone to freeze completely. It seems there are several different spells that cause this same effect :)

Portus
The portus spell creates a portkey that allows people to move from one destination to another easily.

Protego
A spell of protection, to ward off magical attack. Harry uses this at the end of Book 5 to keep a sphere that another is casting “Accio” on.

Reducto
An assault spell, reducto causes damage to what it is fired at. The students use Reducto to blow apart bookshelves at the end of Book 5.

Reparo
A simple spell to repair an object that is broken.

Riddikulus
An anti-boggart spell, that causes the boggart’s scary shape-changing ability to be mediated. Mrs. Weasley has trouble with this one at the beginning of Book 5 when a boggart torments her with sights of her family dead.

Scourgify
A cleaning spell, James uses this on Snape when they are young to clean Snape’s mouth out with soap.

Silencio
A spell to cause something (or someone) to become silent. As Hermoine instructs Ron, this spell is done with a sharp jab of the wand, not a wave.

Stupefy
This spell should freeze an object in place, but when Umbridge tries to use it on an escapee firework, it explodes instead.

Tarantallegra
A Death eater uses this dance-causing spell on Neville during the final battle in Book 5.

Wingardium Leviosa
Harry uses this to levitate tentacles away from him at the end of book 5.

IPS, what's wrong?

Halo halo, mulai nge-blog lagi, tapi masih setengah hati juga. Postingan yang kali ini aja ngambil dari page tumblr, belum sempet ke edit. Why? Tauk deh, rasanya pengen nge-blog tapi bahan buat post masih kurang, yaudah mencomot punya orang deh. Padahal walaupun copas (copy-paste.red) tapi kalo niat nge-blog, pasti aku edit dulu. Well tanpa banyak cincong, read this and hope it will change your perspective about social class :D

Akhir-akhir ini beberapa teman saya (katanya) ada yang bermasalah dengan orang tuanya dalam hal PENJURUSAN. Well, dari yang sudah kita ketahui bahwa MAYORITAS orang tua di Indonesia menginginkan anaknya untuk menekuni bidang IPA dengan alasan “Mudah Kerja”, “banyak Penjurusan di PT”, dan banyak lagi.

Sebenarnya saya kecewa dengan statement orang tua Indonesia golongan MAYORITAS tersebut. why ? marilah saya jelaskan dengan ilmu saya yang sedikit ini.

“IPS itu cuman bisa jadi itu-itu aja”

what’s wrong ? justru dengan jalan yang sudah jelas tersebut, maka sang anak akan terkonsentrasi dengan apa yang dia pelajari. kalo mau jadi ahli ekonomi, ya pasti belajar ekonomi dan sedikit sosiologi untuk memahami daya pikir masyarakat sekitarnya. kalau mau jadi pengamat politik, ya belajr PKn dan sosiologi. Kalau mau jadi ahli astronomi, ya tinggal belajar Geografi.

Mari kita bandingkan dengan IPA. mau ke tehnik kimia, kenapa mengikut lebih mempelajari fisika ? seharusnyakan sesuai dengan namanya. Tehnik KIMIA. we have to learn chemistry. not Physic. dan kalau masuk IPA, (menurut kurikulum Indonesia) jarang ada teori yang dipakai dalam kehidupan sehari-hari.

Memangnya apa sih tujuan kita sekolah ? bersiap untuk menjalani kehidupan bukan ? Seharusnya setiap orang sadar akan hal itu. jadi gak selalu berkelakat dalam teori yang menggunung itu.

Coba kita lihat kondisi Indonesia sekarang. tingkat Ekonominya sedang awut-awutan, ahli ekonomi hanya bisa dihitung Jari. Dokter di Indonesia sudah banyak, tetapi orang yang menderita penyakit semakin banyak dan butuh waktu lama untuk penanganannya. bahkan banyak orang Indonesia yang berobat keluar negri. Jadi keadaan kita sekarang itu berat sebelaj, dimana sisi beratnya pun tidak memberikan kontribusi yang besar bagi masyarakat Indonesia.

Mari kita lihat dari sisi sejarahnya.(botabene, saya membacanya dari kaskus. entah benar atau tidak. tapi masih dapet logikanya)

Jaman dahulu, ketika Indonesia sedang dijajah orang belanda, konon banyak sekali orang-orang pribumi yang dinilai “berbahaya” bagi pemerintahan mereka, apabila orang-orang tersebut mempelajari berbagai bidang sosial. Dari ekonomi hingga politik.Karena apabila muncul ahli-ahli dari Indonesia, Belanda akan kewalahan menghadapi mereka. So,dengan akal bulusnya, mereka berhasil mengarahkan orang-orang tersebut menjauhi bidang sosial, dan belanda pun semakin berkuasa di atas tanah Indonesia.

Nah nah nah, gak usah "ngoyo" buat masuk ke IPA kalo emang gak yakin. Daripada ntar jadi IPA gadungan hayoo lhoooo

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A Message for You

LOOK AROUND YOU!

Proud to be Girl

Hello there! Now, I have an interesting stuff to write on my blog. It is about girl world. Well, have you ever feel regret to be a girl? I mean with a lot of reasons like too whine, or maybe you are not beautiful enough to attract the boys so you have to taking many kind of treatments in the salon? Even you let tormented because of them?

Well, it's time to think it again and don't be desperate. You know, we are as the girl can doing or can thinking many kind of something in the same time and the boy does not. Why? Because the girl has a thicker nerve connection between left-side brain and right-side brain than the boy. That's why we can using lipgloss while we are talking on the phone. Just imagine if you are talking with the boy while they are shaving, I bet he would hurts himself :p

Next, if you have a boyfriend already, I guess you know one of their annoying habit in the crowd. Yeah, his annoying habit is taking a look with another beautiful girl in front us, as his girlfriend. Actually, if you want to look at your own self, confess that you do the same thing like them. But, we never get known by him (how lucky we are!). But why? I get the reason from on of the girl magazine B'girl and I pick it up here : "Ternyata ini karena bagian kerucut di retina mata cewek tuh lebih lebar dibandingkan pada mata cowok, sehingga sudut pandang cewek jadi lebih luas."
So, we don't have to turn our head if you see the cute one on the crowd. Hihihi :p

Actually, there are many reasons to emphasize us to be a girl. But I just choose 2 reasons because they are so interesting, and for your information that I got all of this stuff from B'girl with a lil bit changes :) Say thanks to B'girl :D

Share A Lil of Photography

Do you like to take a photo? I mean not take a pic of you with some poses like say cheese or something like that. I mean, you take the attractive object around you and click it with your cam. Sometimes, you don't need to wait a beautiful moment to take a pic. Be creative guys! Just look around you and use your imagine and skill. Example, you see a glass of ice tea in your table. As you know, in the outside of the glass always there are some dews, because the are some ices on the glass. With a sense of imagine, you'll see that the glass is so sweaty. Of course, the sweats is the dews. And now, use your skill. You can make this object become attractive by taking a pic with appropriate angel. If you use DSLR cam, you can choose a zoom technique to make this object become catchy. Just arrange your zoom lens and focus on the object, it can make the other object around it looks blur. So the message of the pis is clear because you focus your lens into the object. You can put a title, "The Tired Glass", because it is so sweaty.

And this is the important one. If you want a best result on your photo, be more dare! What does it mean? Ya, the attractive objects are similar to a dangerous condition and hard to take it. Sometimes, it forces you to be more close to the object and placed you into inconvenience condition. As you can see into the pic above, she lets her in the flood just because she wants to the best result on her pics. And you know what? My photograph teacher always said that if you want to make a good pic with your own cam, the best tips is by taking a look at the good pics from the famous photographer, browse it on Google :)

Finally, there are no any difficulties to take a good pics, as long as you want to effort it and more practice :)

Sang Pemimpi, The Great Inspiration

Seems familiar with it? Yes, Sang Pemimpi, a great film with its great author, Andrea Hirata. He is not create it by his imagination, it based on his true story, his cool experiences. I have watched all of the film, first Laskar Pelangi and second, Sang Pemimpi. I watched Sang Pemimpi yesterday in the cinema. I know that is too late, but I live in Kediri, small town in East Java. You know, the newest film always come late here, sometimes I think it is better if I go to the Surabaya to watch the newest film so I'm not miss it too long. But that is just waste my money haha :D

Ok, back again, I watched it in the second week from its appear, omg, really late isn't? Wait, I have the reason if you know, based on my experience when I watched Laskar Pelangi in the first week, cinema was full of people who want to watch it too. The tickets almost sold out even! So I decide to go to cinema in the second weekend and I totally wrong about my own conclusion. The cinema was full of people, the most is children with their mommy. I can not imagine if I must go to the cinema with my mommy, haha, well I did but I never do it again since I realize that I'm adult :lol:

Sang Pemimpi, yes, by reading the title you can guess that it tells about a story of the dreamer. Ikal and his cousin, Arai always believe to their dreams, go to the Paris and get study there. To purpose their dreams, they are not only believe on their faith and spirit, they have to work hard. Mr. Balia, their teacher when they were in high school, always give them a spirit to never give up to the condition. Hmm, if you want to know the complete story, watch it by yourself :D Because I'm not talking about the synopsis of this film.

I just want to, what ya, kinda promote Sang Pemimpi, why are you have to watching this great great film. Well, Sang Pemimpi is one of the best film that made in Indonesia, where our film industry is full of kinda horor, comedy, and sometimes they pick some hot scene on that film. What a tragedy! We need a good film with a lot of moral values on it, to make young generation grow up with a new spirit, or just inspire us to make a new creation for the better future. As you can see, all of cinema in Indonesia are less from kinda film. Err, well, my name is Veny and I am 16th and you can guess that I am still in the high school with a lot of plans for the better future. And you are not student if you are not become lazy sometimes, haha just kidding but that's the real me. So diligent in the some favorite lessons but play truant in the boring class.

And here I am, after watching that great film, I have just realized, I have just thought that I have to plan my future seriously, start now of course. During my school period, I never really serious in my education, except in my elementary school, I was one of the smart student in the class but in that period. No, I do not mean to be an arrogant, I just want to share it. I really really know that my parents work hard to earn my school, so I can get what I want and to make them proud of me. But they never know what I do in the school and when they know all of my lessons score, I know that they are very disappointed of me. Now I see a lot of chances in front of me, chances to change me, chances to make them proud because of me. Sometimes all of me efforts seems so useless because I never be a winner and always a loser. After watched this film, now I realize, it is too early to say that. I am still young, just do what you can do for yourself and others. Just do not miss the chance and always believe that your dream could guide you well :))